shu-of-the-wind:

jjmaybanks:

ferricadooza:

jjmaybanks:

ferricadooza:

it means that i’m a lesbian……………. but sometimes i look at a member of one direction and think……….. he’s a cutie patootie……………. so i’m not lesbian enough :// sometimes i have het thoughts :// because apparently no expression of appreciation for a man’s looks can be platonic ://

It’s called bisexuality. 

not when you experience zero sexual or romantic attraction towards men, it’s not.

you literally said you experience het thoughts.. whatever that’s being defined as. regardless, hetero lesbianism isn’t a thing I said what I said. if you don’t experience romantic or sexual attraction to men you’re just a lesbian.

butting in here as an ace lesbian.

there are five kinds of attraction. sexual, romantic, aesthetic, platonic, and sensual.

you can be attracted to someone’s aesthetic WITHOUT any kind of sexual or romantic inclinations to that person. 

it’s literally like being drawn to a painting. you definitely like looking at the painting, but you’re not in love with it and you don’t want to fuck it. 

Sources here for your perusal.